It's you, dear
- You know u r the right person for urself....
- Never give ur precious trust to any one.....
- Trust people.....but not blindly....secretly keep an eye....not for hurting purposes...but for ur safety....
- It's u..... don't even think that anyone can beat u...u r the best and that's enough......
- If u have any confusion about ur problems....spent alone time with urself.....then u will simply get all answers.....
- U just have to understand ur own rules....
- Read urself....dear ....u r a book.... understand ur concept......
- It's ok if u don't wanna share.......just write, then read and read again......
- U will find that as complicated u were thinking....as simple it was ....
} If you compare yourself to others, you will always be sad.
The wife said to the husband, let's not go around Shimla, the husband was aware of the habit of his wife's defeat. He said, there is only one condition. We will go to Shimla, click a lot of photos there, but you will not post those photos on Facebook, the wife becomes sad. She said, if you can not put it on Facebook, then what is the use of going to Shimla. When the husband asked the reason, she said, how will my friend circle know that I have come to Shimla. Recently a friend of mine has come there. I want to show her that I am gone too. Friends, today this competition is increasing rapidly among the people. People want to get married with pomp, want to give a big party, so that they can show it to the front. If the wife of a clerk buys a necklace for three thousand, she repeats it again and again to everyone that my husband has gifted me a necklace of three thousand. Then even if the talk is going on on some other subject at that time.
It has become a habit of people to present their successes, achievements and efforts in such a way that they become the subject of envy among those who know us. If someone wants to burn you after hearing all this, then keep in mind that you have to listen to the things of the other person only with a smile and then forget it, do not let those things dominate you. It will be a bit difficult in the beginning, but practice it. If you do not do this, then the feeling of jealousy will keep smoldering inside you. She will keep you dissatisfied and you will behave exactly the way the other person wants you to. You will tell your husband that give me a necklace of three thousand too, I also have to go out for a walk, where her husband takes her for a walk, gives the necklace. One day your husband will get angry after hearing all this and he will start shouting at you: There will be a fight between the two of you. The atmosphere of the house will deteriorate and your friend's wish will be fulfilled.
💡Important note to talk..
Take a step to make life easy and simple, follow those on Facebook
Stay away from people whose success lifestyle makes you jealous.
Try to be successful, work hard, buy new things, but that's all
Don't do it so that you can show it to others. Do it for your own pleasure.
} Don't feel guilt :
I have always had this problem that after making some mistake, after having an argument with someone, after scolding someone, I feel a lot of guilt, it is only in the last days. I scolded a junior colleague for one of his mistakes, because because of his mistake, I had to hear scolding from my seniors. When I scolded him and he quietly went to work, after a few hours, I started feeling guilty. While it was not at all that I did any mistake by scolding. I was absolutely right in my place, but yesterday I read an article about how to avoid feeling guilty. It was written in it that if you make a mistake knowingly or unknowingly, then instead of feeling guilty on that mistake, take a pledge not to repeat that kind of mistake again in future and learn to forgive yourself. If you have said 'no' to such a work, for which your mind is not testifying, then do not bring even the slightest bad feeling in your heart for that one thing, sometimes at some stages of life. say no
becomes necessary. If you have been invited to a party by a friend of yours and you will not be able to go, it does not mean that you should sit with guilt in your mind that why I did not go to his party. May he not feel bad. You can refuse them in a good way too, because you can't go everywhere all the time. Many times it happens that there are some issues between friends, on which if there is a debate, then you cannot live without keeping your opinion. If you put your thoughts in front of others freely, then do not feel guilty or bad about it later, because the ideology of every person does not necessarily match the ideology of the other person. Every person has every right to think according to his own opinion and to express his opinion. So always keep your point easily.
💡Important note to talk...
If you have made some mistake, say sorry. but if it's not a mistake
If so, do not unnecessarily keep a feeling of guilt in your mind.
Sometimes we want to help some unknown person, but we are not able to do it.
regret later. Just take a lesson from this incident. Don't be in gilt.
So now give a dashing smile..and keep reading my blog.....
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