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Never expect :

Help people without selfishness Someone has put a short film on Facebook. It shows that a An elderly woman comes to the store with her grandson and granddaughter of about 6-7 years old to buy goods, all the household items are picked up and put in the basket. While the granddaughter goes to the cake section and asks the salesman to remove the cake from the show case and give it. He gives it out. All three take the goods and reach the billing counter, but the goods go out of budget. The elderly lady asks to remove the cake from the list. Granddaughter sadly says that I want that cake, but her grandmother explains it. They leave after paying for the rest of the goods. All this the salesman is watching, he pays the money for that cake and comes out and gives it to that girl. Dadi says I can't take this cake. I have no reason to take the cake from you. Then the salesman tells that when I was seven years old, I too was crying for cake in the store one day. That day was my birthday. Moth...

Then you should also be happy:

  He is happy in his life, so be you On Facebook, we make friends without meeting many people just by looking at the profile photo and profession. If someone sees a doctor, engineer, poet, government job, celebrity type, then we think he is a civilized person. He is also educated. With this, friendship can be made on Facebook. We send him a friend request or even accept his request. For a few days, the process of karmat, likes goes on each other's photos and posts. Sometimes we even talk on chat. But, when we do not talk for several months, we forget that this is also in our friend list. . Then one day suddenly I remember from something that 'Hey, my friend did not appear on Facebook for a long time, he neither commented, nor liked, nor uploaded any photo of himself. If he had, I would have seen that we immediately go to his wall by entering his name in the search and find that he has unfriended us, then we know that 'Oh. That's why I could not see its post for so long....

Be happy and find your strength:

  Know your strength, be happy Once a saint reached a garden near his ashram, • He sees that all the trees and plants are withered. Seeing this the saints get worried and start asking them one by one the reason for their condition. First they go to the oak tree and ask. The oak tree says, I am dying. Because, God did not make me tall as a cedar. When the saint looked at the cedar, his shoulders were also bowed, he was withered because he could not bear fruit like a grape tree. This was what was eating him. At the same time, the grape vine was dying because, according to her, she was not able to give fragrant flowers like roses. When the saint went a little further, he saw a tree, which was full of full bloom and freshness. The saint asked him - it is a wonderful thing. I have walked around the garden. You have met the only satisfied and peaceful tree. The tree said, all of them do not recognize their merits. They don't know that they are also very special in their own right. They o...

Don't be discouraged:

  Don't be discouraged, you are a diamond to o   A man went to Runanak Sahib and he said, Guruji, what is the value of life? Guru Nanak ji gave him a stone and said, go and come after finding out the value of this stone, but take care not to sell the stone, the man took the stone to an orange man in the market and said, what is its price? The orange man looking at the bright stone said, take 12 oranges and give it to me. The man said to the orange man, the guru has said that it is not to be sold. Now he went to a vegetable seller. The vegetable seller saw that shiny stone and said, take a sack of potatoes and leave this stone with me. The man said, I do not want to sell it, next went to a goldsmith selling gold and showed him the stone. The goldsmith said sell it for 50 lakh rupees. He refused, so the goldsmith said, give it for two crore rupees. The man told the goldsmith that my guru has refused to sell it. Next he went to a jeweler selling diamonds and showed him the stone....

Anger and understanding:

  Five lessons learned from a small incident   In the past, my mood was bad for something, only two college students who had done my internship in our office came to meet me.  At that time I was scolding another person in the office for their mistake.  Both of these came in front of me, so I did not even talk to them properly.  Did not even ask for movement and said that the mood is bad now, do not talk now, then it is fine.  After two days, a senior asked me something and gave a similar answer that my mood is not good.  Go now, I felt bad to hear this, but then I realized that I have done this too and started thinking, scold someone unnecessarily, so God has put me in such a situation only to tell how I feel.  Now I got the lesson,I felt bad thinking about those Interns, the number of one of them was 11 o'clock in the night.  I messaged him on whatsapp 'Sorry you guys came to meet me that day and I was in bad mood.  I took out someone e...

Your deeds:

  Fill the bag with only good fruits in life It was the king. One day he called three of his ministers to the court he ordered them  to take a bag each and go to the garden and collect good fruits from there. All three of them entered into different gardens. The first minister tried to collect good and fine fruits of his choice for the king. After a lot of hard work, he filled the bag with good and fresh fruits. The second minister thought that the king would not test every fruit, so no need for much effort, he mixed fresh fruits with raw, sore, rotten ones. The fruits were also filled in the bag, the third minister thought that the king's eyes would be only on the filled bag. He won't even open the bottom to see if he has hurried to save time In  hurry to fill the bag fruits  with grass and leaves and saved time. On the second day the king called the three ministers with their bags to the court and did not even open their bags and ordered that all three should be ta...

Establish a cheerful personality:

  Everyone wants the company of the 'laugher' The reason for many people going into depression is their loneliness and the reason for loneliness is themselves. The only fault of such people is that they are very emotional and take everything to heart, they get worried seeing every wrong thing in the society. If you see something bad somewhere, then discuss it throughout the day. If someone has said something, then blame yourself. Whenever such people meet anyone, they talk about them. ' The child replied in reverse, he does not respect me at all. we fight over everything... today. We thinks like this: wife is no longer the same, saw an elderly person on the roadside, felt pity, but I could not do anything... today the boss snatched my project from me and gave it to someone else, now I have some work I'm not there... I'm looking for a job, but I can't find it..." Day and night these people keep saying similar things to the people who are around them. People ...

Be happy and learn to go with flow:

  Life doesn't stop, it keeps on going When Julio was 10 years old, he had only one dream, playing football for his favorite club Real Madrid. He played, practiced throughout the day and gradually he became a very good goalkeeper. By the time he was 20', his childhood dream came close to becoming a reality. He was signed to play football for Real Madrid. The fan of the game was very impressed with Julio and believed that very soon he would become Spain's No. 1 goalkeeper. 1963 That evening, Julio and his friends went for a walk somewhere in the car, but unfortunately that car had a terrible accident and Julio, who became Real Madrid and Spain's No. 1 was lying in the hospital. The part below his waist was paralyzed. The doctors were not even sure that Julio would ever be able to walk, let alone playing football. Recovering back was a very long and painful experience. Julie was completely disappointed. He would remember that incident again and again and was filled with a...

Ego and our sorry:

  learn to say sorry by putting your ego away: We love to think that we are always right. Admitting our mistake lowers our status in our eyes, parents have ego problems with their children and seniors with their younger ones. Generally in India the ego of husbands is stronger than that of their wives. They don't even accept the mistake. Saying sorry is a far cry. How many times as a parent have you accepted in front of your child? Have you been wrong in scolding? As an older sibling, how many times have you apologized to your younger sibling for your bad behavior? is? I am sure this rarely happens, this is the only cure for every habit. that you let go of your ego. To end this, you must first accept that you are not a god, one who does not make mistakes. Are you human. You can make a mistake. And you can even apologize. This will not make you small. I also have a suggestion that you don't take yourself too seriously, we all have egos because as we age, we create a very serious ...

Have tolerance:

Benefit of having tolerance   Socrates was the great Greek philosopher. His wife has a quarrelsome tendency. was. She usually used to fight with Socrates over small matters. But the wife did not like the habit of reading Socrates while keeping calm all the time. One day when Socrates came home with some of his disciples, the wife got angry about something. Socrates did not pay attention to this, but she started saying good and bad to Socrates in a loud voice, even after all this, Socrates did not say anything, then his wife picked up the mud from outside and put it on Socrates's mouth. Socrates laughed out loud and whispered, you debunked the old saying today. It is said that those who thunder do not rain. But, you are thundering and raining, all the disciples were watching this event. A disciple asked Socrates, how do you bear all this? Even after all this, you are joking. Socrates said, This is worthy, my wife stumbles upon me to see whether Socrates is raw or firm. This behavior...

Story of two friends :

  Story of two friends: A story tells that two friends were  walking through a desert. During  some part of the journey they had an  argument, and one friend slapped the  other one on the face. The one who  got slapped was hurt,but not without  saying anything, wrote in the sand  " Today my best friend slapped me on my face" They kept walking until they found an  oasis, where they decided to take a  bath. The one who had been slapped  got struck in the mire and started  drowning, but her friend saved her.  After her recovery bshe wrote on a  stone :  "Today my best friend saved my life".  The friend who had slapped and saved  her best friend asked her : " After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand  and now, you wrote on a stone. Why???" The other one replied, "when someone  hurt us we should write it down in  sand, where wind of forgiveness can  erase it away but we must engrave  o...